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Friday, February 6, 2009

Bonding with Sara

We made a cool club house out of a big box. Ben adores Sara and tries to do all he can to make her happy. Lucas on the other hand not so sweet but he loves her just the same he just has an annoying way of showing it, she's a tough cookie never once has she cried because he did something to her.



My little niece who is growing way too fast has a bad case of seperation anxiety from her mother.
She screams and is inconsolable whenever her mother leaves the room. Not even her father can calm her down. So when Maryann asked for some help with this problem I was all to happy to help....it's hard to bond with a child when she only wants her mommy and this is my daughter that I'll never have so we need to bond! Anyways Maryann has been bringing her over tuesdays and thursdays and sneaking out for a bit. Yes she cried but she did let me hold, console, and read to her which was nice and last thursday she didn't cry at all! She whimpered when she noticed MA was gone but didn't cry!

5 comments:

Kim said...

The Fenske blood must run thick...they look more like siblings than cousins!

Bonnie and Kirk said...

Your nieces's mom must love you. I know that Bonnie lives for those moments when she can escape for just an hour, turn up the stereo, and flee from the responsibilities of motherhood. What a treat you are giving her...

Amy said...

Your kids are getting way to big. That is so cute that they get along so good together! That's awesome that you can help her out like that. It's a pain when I babysit and the child is crying the whole time cause they miss mommy.

Mom said...

You are a good Auntie Nikki, I'm sure it means alot to Maryann. Love the pictures I miss all of you and this is a good way to see the boys.

Nicole said...

Yay for progress and what a good auntie!